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PSYCHIC & MEDIUMSHIP FAQs
I've never met with a psychic medium, what can I expect?
It's my hope that your reading feels like an enlightening conversation with an old friend. Folks frequently want insight into their love lives, career, moving plans or are interested in my mediumship service (connecting with the energy of deceased loved ones). It is my sincere hope that you leave our conversation feeling a sense of clarity, peace, assurance and sense of direction moving forward.
How should I prepare for my visit to get the most out of it?
Questions. You should prepare a list of questions, in order of importance. Your questions are what drive the reading.
Photos. I’m a visual person and photos are very helpful, both in my psychic and mediumship work. They help me to glean information about the relationships that you seek insight into. Photos can be originals, printed, or on your phone. The age of the photos is not important. It is very helpful for me to see the eyes of the person in the photo, so better that they are not wearing sunglasses. Please email or text the photos just prior to or during our call, I do not want your photos in advance.
Mediumship.
• I do not guarantee that information from a deceased loved one will come, and ask that you remain open to whatever information is received. Information that I tend to get relates to what was important to the deceased, how they lived their life, evidential information about how they died, and what they did for a living.
• Please allow at least 6 months after the loss of a loved one, prior to getting a reading. I have found that intense grief can impede the flow of information for me, which is why I ask for a waiting period.
• Mediumship readings can not be purchased as gifts. It's been my experience that the grieving individual is the person who should seek the service out.
• I am not the type of medium who sees your departed loved ones entering the room or standing around you. I understand that some mediums have that skill, but as of yet, that is not one of mine. I work via your intention to connect with someone specific. Having a photo to look at, in which I can clearly see the person's eyes, is necessary (most of the time) for me to connect with the departed loved one.
• I can not solve murders, though I may get some details regarding the circumstances.
• I can not resolve the surrounding circumstances of a mysterious death, though I may be able to get surrounding details.
• I do not specialize in home clearings or eradicating paranormal events, though I can send instructions on how best to do that.
• It's best to understand that mediumship, like psychic work, is about piecing together the puzzle and not necessarily fully fleshing out the details.No details, please. When we're arranging the appointment via email, please do not send me any personal information as I prefer not to be influenced in advance of your reading.
Open attitude. Please arrive with an open heart and mind. A closed attitude, deep anxiet,y or sincere doubt about my abilities will impede the flow of information. That said, I encourage you to be skeptical and pay attention to what I say during our visit. Evidential information about the subject which you’re inquiring about will likely come to the surface during our visit.
Cell phones. Please refrain from scrolling through your phone or watching TV during our meeting. Your divided attention will make getting a good reading on your behalf impossible.
Sobriety. Please be sober for your visit. Prescription medications are ok.
Confidentiality. Your readings are completely confidential. I have no interest in sharing your personal information. Though it should be noted, our conversation is not protected when the law is concerned. If you divulge information about harming yourself or others I will reach out to the authorities as necessary.
Independence. It is not advisable to see a psychic medium more than a few times per year. I encourage you to embrace the information received in each consult and live fully between visits.
How should I gauge my expectations?
Please understand that psychic mediumship is an art, not a science.
The very best readings are with folks that are open-minded, open-hearted, and not terribly anxious.
When seeking information about love or career, it is best to ensure that you are actively working on these endeavors. If you are resisting movement in these areas, that is basically all I will see on your behalf. This is not magical, you need to take action in your life in order to create momentum.
Try to suspend your preconceived notions and any agenda you may have. You may not receive the information that you were wanting to hear, regarding relationships or circumstances you’re inquiring about. My intention is to receive information that is for your highest benefit, even if the news is not what you’d hoped for. It's my belief that whatever is uncovered in your reading, is being revealed to you for your highest good.
Free Will. You have free will and are ultimately the captain of your ship. As a psychic medium, I merely point out what I see based on the current conditions in your life. You have the capacity to change those conditions at any time, thus shifting future probabilities. This can be as simple as improving your intentions or as concrete as changing a plan you currently have in motion.
Please know that I don’t claim to be omniscient. I won’t get everything that there is to know about you. It’s my belief, that there are some paths and lessons that are meant for you to experience in this school of life. It’s how you deal with the outcomes that matter most.
I work on all of life’s messy priorities, but my strength is relationships. Whether you are in one (and figuring out how to navigate it) or you are wanting one (and trying to figure out the blocks to make that happen) or whether we’re connecting with a deceased loved one through mediumship.
I do not have the skill to help you find lost objects, getting the winning lotto numbers, or figure out the combination to a safe.
I believe your skepticism is valuable and I do not encourage blind faith. Skepticism indicates a willing and open attitude that waits for evidential data to make a connection. Conversely, if you have serious doubts and reservations about my abilities prior to and during our meeting, we will not likely have a productive meeting. That is due to the fact that doubt carries an attitude of judgment, prior to the performance of a service.
How does it work?
I take a few deep breaths, invite a meditative state, and internally ask spirit to inform me, regarding the answers to your questions or the connection to your departed loved one. When I'm in that meditative space, I encourage my clients to ask questions – at any time. Asking questions helps keep the flow of information coming. The feedback I get:
Is usually very visual in nature, rich with symbolism, and much like a dream. I then decipher the symbolism and relate to you its application to your life.
Occasionally spirit will relay “spot-on” information, this is an exception and not a rule, as most information will be the aforementioned symbolism.
Deceased relatives or friends have revealed themselves to me, but this is no guarantee of what will come forth for you. When they do come in I tend to get information on how they passed and/or their personality and how they showed up in life. I don’t have control over who comes in, what they choose to share with me, or if anyone comes at all. We can simply invite and see what happens. With mediumship, it is especially important to be open-minded. If you have an agenda, it simply won’t work.
I tell you everything that I get, exactly as I get it, with symbolism explained.
What if you see something scary in my future?
I have a deal with my spirit guides to steer clear of doom and gloom, that said, if I get specific information on situations to avoid, I'll share that with you.
How do I schedule the appointment? Do you have an online booking app?
After purchase, email emily@emilygrote.com to coordinate the date and time, please note usual availability is within a couple of weeks. I’m sorry that I don’t offer an online booking calendar at this time.
What are your hours?
Monday 9 am – 6 pm
Tuesday 9 am – 6 pm
Wednesday 9 am – 6 pm
How do I book an appointment?
Pre-pay with Cash app ($emilygrotepsychic), Zelle app (emily@emilygrote.com) or you can use the links below or above. Pre-paying allows me to book only firm appointments.
After purchase, email emily@emilygrote.com to coordinate the date and time, please note usual availability is within two weeks.
If you’re booking a mediumship reading (connecting with the consciousness of a deceased loved one) please allow at least 6 months to pass, after the loss, before booking.
Appointments are by Skype/Facetime or WhatsApp only. Skype/Facetime, calls do not in any way diminish the information that I receive on your behalf. I do not do cell phone readings as reception is lousy in my area.
Same-day appointments are not available.
What if I need to cancel?
Please allow 48 hours to give me the opportunity to fill the time slot. Cancellations with less notice will not be refunded.
What if I’m late or I forget about my appointment?
Please email, call or text if you know you are going to be late. A fifteen-minute grace period will be given for each appointment. In addition, if you do not show up for your appointment you forfeit your non-refundable appointment fee.
Do you have any guarantee?
I have a no-hard feelings guarantee. If you feel the information I provided in your reading doesn't ring true, I will refund you 100%. I kindly ask that you resolve any dispute with me directly as it's my priority that you are satisfied with your reading.
Can I come with a friend or partner?
As long as you are all in alignment, and have a shared strategy on what questions you want answered, then I am ok with couples or small groups of no more than 2 people. The ultimate objective is to all be on the same page and avoid split energies in the room.
Do you do parties?
I'm sorry not to offer party readings as I have an intimate style in which I prefer to work with clients.
Psychic Mediumship is a form of entertainment
The State of New York regards psychic mediumship as a form of entertainment – whereas I regard my psychic mediumship as an extension of my spiritual life practice. That said, I respect this designation because whatever information is derived from a psychic medium is not as meaningful as the intuitive information that you can get on your own behalf. I firmly believe that everyone is psychic and its depth and scope are proportionate to your belief in yourself and your intuitive abilities. In visiting with clients, my intention is to offer pure consciousness-derived information. It is my sincere hope that the information obtained brings you clarity, peace, and assurance.
Statement of inclusion
I know in my heart that our common human condition is a beautiful fabric. Our faith traditions, cultures, races, ages, abilities, sexualities, and gender expressions are woven purposefully together to make us stronger. However, you show up in the world is valuable and precious.
Disclaimer
By booking an appointment with me, you agree that I am not a medical expert or attorney. I can't and won't give legal advice or attempt to diagnose medical conditions. I am not responsible for any action or decisions you make in your life. My psychic mediumship service is not to be used in place of any professional, medical, financial, or legal counseling. The information obtained in our meeting is subject to your own personal interpretation and any action you take is entirely your personal responsibility.
After purchase please email emily@emilygrote.com to coordinate date & time.